Skip to main content

Swami Malai Mandir: First time darshan! What I love about Lord Subramanya worship

Festivities are over, feelings are not!😊 As I write this blog post, Diwali blues are settling in, just as easily as the evening chill in Delhi's barely breathable air. You won't believe how I used to dread the festive season in Delhi when I came here two decades ago. The sound of fire crackers used to frighten me. Even children would carelessly toss the firecrackers from one corner to the other and I would be literally trembling with fear! Has anything changed now? I have begun loving the festivities!


Having lived in Delhi NCR for more than two decades now, I see things differently. I love the festive season, especially Diwali, when I can just deck up my home, unleash my creativity in arranging the decor and the diyas and getting ready to send out gifts of love to a very small circle of loved ones.

When I look out of the window just now, I see a grey sky and the sun resembles a fading yolk. Peace all around. Or is it the energy that I have carried along with me after Malai Mandir darshan?

Malai Mandir: Presiding deity is Lord Subramanya
My family and I had our first darshan at Delhi's famous 'Malai Mandir', where the presiding deity is Lord Subramanya. Setting off early in the morning with family, we reached the temple, bought jasmine garlands to make our offering and the overall experience is still filling my heart with such joy. 

Lord Subramanya worship: Remembering Pazhani temple in Tamil Nadu

As a child, our parents used to undertake annual pilgrimages to the famous Pazhani temple, where Lord Subramanya is worshipped. This used to be the highlight of our summer vacation. The visit to Delhi's Malai Mandir with my family brought back memories of my childhood vacations. The grandeur of the presiding deity is so enthralling that words are not enough to describe it.

Standing before the form of Lord Subramanya, I felt like a child today. 

Adithi Rao, in her novel titled 'Left from the Nameless Shop' stories', recreates the magic of RK Narayan's 'Malgudi Days' in the following words:

"An oil lamp burning flickering anywhere takes me back to the sight of flames flickering across the benevolent clay visage of the elephant headed god we brought home each year on Ganesh Chaturthi day. Festivals in our family home were about the smell of raw banana bajjis frying in hot oil, and laddoos pilfered from under the myopic eyes of Narassimha the cook.... A single image, a shadow, a play of light in places thousands of miles away can bring back a rush of memories - incidents, thoughts, sometimes mere sensations. But undeniably powerful just the same."

Reading these words, feeling the electrifying vibes that I directly experienced at the sacred Malai Mandir in Delhi, I feel peace all around and within me.

Often we do not realise the power of sacred places to transmute our own energies into a higher awareness.

Have you experienced this feeling too? Tell me your experience - I'd love to know.

In my heart, the divine mantra of Lord Subramanya plays like a loop, 'Om Sharavana Bhavaya Namaha'.

Feeling blessed.💛

Comments

Most LOVED Posts

The Ugly Truth about Caste in Kerala

Many years ago, when I wrote this post on Kerala's caste system, I had not considered that people would start sending in abusive comments about one caste over the other. It baffles me that this is how Indians, all of us, continue to judge each other on account of caste differences.  [ READ: Guru Kripa: Powerful Lessons at the Lotus Feet ] My question is - why do you ABUSE any caste or community? I suggest that you read about the lives of great Masters and their stories - none of them judged anyone on the basis of caste.  You can read the life stories of Sri Adi Shankara Bhagawadpada, Tulsidas, Jnaneshwar, Namadev, Sri Aurobindo, Sri Ramakrishna, Swami Paramahansa Yogananda, Shirdi Sai Baba, and many more Gurus in Sanathana Dharma. NONE of them endorse these caste hierarchies in Bhakti Marga. Assuming that Guru Sampradaya does not appeal to your sensibilities, do read this  new book 'Ants among Elephants' written by Sujatha Gidla, who writes about herself as being bor...

Best time to light diya

Want to know when is the best time to light diya or deepam at home? In most Hindu homes, 'deepam' or 'diya' is lit at least twice - once in the morning and then in the evening. For both times, brass is considered to be auspicious for lighting deepam or lamp at home. Clay diyas are auspicious for lighting at home. On Fridays, it is considered auspicious to use ghee in a silver lamp. When Should I Start Lighting Diyas? The symbolic shift begins from darkess to light. Therefore, in the evenings, light diya before sunset to usher in divine blessings into your home. What is the purpose of lighting a diya? Light dispels darkness. When we light a diya, we bring light into our hopes and positive energy in our personal spaces. Nothing is more beautiful than Light. At what time should we light diya today? Every morning at sunrise and every evening before or at sunset. An ideal time would be to light the diya at least half an hour before sunset. Can we light diya after 12 PM? In ...

Scientific reason behind lighting diyas

Lighting diyas at home is a part of my childhood. What is the science behind lighting diya? For decades, Hindu households light the diya or deepam every morning and evening. However, increasingly, there are many questions regarding why this practice is integral to the well-being of a Hindu home.                                                         [Source: Pexels.com]                                       Significance of Lighting Deepam Let's do a practice session. At sunset, switch off all the lights in your home - feel the energy inside your home. After all, everything is the same - your home is the same, the furniture is the same, your personality is the same. Sit in the darkness and decode the energy in your home - is it the same as during sunl...

A Book Review: One and a Half Wife by Meghna Pant

When I picked up Meghna Pant's One and a Half Wife , it is the title that evoked a curiosity in me more than the blurb that explains the story of a young Indian Immigrant girl whose Big American dream turns to ashes. To be honest, I’d say that there didn't seem to be a 'new-ness' to the way the blurb explained the story. In fact, if given a second chance, I’d suggest to the author to completely rewrite the blurb because it is plain dull and doesn't do justice to the subtle, exquisite nuances that underlines this deeply touching, well written story.   .  Also read: The Power of OM  and   Dark Night of the Soul Talking about nuances, I like the introduction of the story beginning with a parrot who picks up cards to predict the little girl Amara’s destiny as a ‘one and a half wife.’ The description is deeply touching and will evoke interesting memories with a distinct Indianess that all of us can relate to. The author adds a dash of subtle humor too, poking fun at t...

Khatta Meetha: Life's Games of Wins and Losses

Priyadarshan’s Khatta Meetha is a movie that I didn’t want to miss. I was determined to see the movie that was a remake of one of my favorite Mohanlal-Srini movies. Tired of candy floss romance and terrorist-turns-good romance in Bollywood movies, I wanted to watch something that is about ordinary people like me. The song sequences in foreign locations, the mindless hero-heroine plots and unbelievable romantic encounters were chipping away at my interest in watching movies altogether because every movie seemed to be a rehash of a commercial formula that has doses of love, violence and glamour. Khatta Meetha: Romance is out, Social Satire and Mass Appeal is in Critics have come up with detailed interpretations of this film. However, an ordinary viewer like me didn’t go to nit-pick on the gaps in the movie. I went there to just watch and enjoy. I assume many viewers do the same when they go to watch a movie. When most people watch a Bollywood movie, if the hero-heroine chemistry isn’t...