How to be happy and follow your joy trail

For parents, professionals and school going children, March is a super busy month. For me, as a mother, the icing on the cake is that my kid has entered the world of teenagers this month and I feel very emotional about every year that has whizzed by, catapulting my baby into...a teenager! I am sure most parents would agree with me when I say this - time simply flies! [READ: HOW to LOVE!]

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The icing on the cake has been that winter has finally come to an end or so I have begun to feel. I can finally tuck away my heaps of sweaters, blankets and warm clothes to usher in the vibrant summer. I simply love summer and I can't wait to tell you how it feels to blossom under the sun, literally! Throughout winter, I have felt so frozen that I was counting every day to inch closer to summer.

Simply put, I make room for more space, colours and joy in my home and heart. In our thoughts too, we can do the same. [Make room for more family love!]

Tuck away the past memories that have cluttered our mind space.

The more rooted we stay in the present, the happier we can be.

When we talk about the 'past', let's focus on the good memories.

Don't rely on memories or moments from the past that do not serve your highest good.

[READ: Five Powerful Ways to Teach Your Child to Behave]

Simply put, be happy and just follow your joy trail. Let everything else go!

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