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Thought for the Day: Live the questions that seek you out

There's always a silver lining at the start of the day. I truly believe that. Here's a thought for the day that resonated with all that I believe and hold close to my heart.



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"Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer." â€” Rainer Maria Rilke

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