Be a Winner: Dare To Think Differently

New Year 2024: How exciting it feels to start the New Year and experience the vibe of exploring new goals and new beginnings! We can make every day feel special and here's how! [READ: That Time Of The Year]

This is a good time to find new and smart ways to excel at something that you haven't done before - it could be as simple as starting a new fitness regime or a new diet plan or creating new dishes for your loved ones, or you can make it as complex as exploring India's culinary traditions and documenting it by infusing it with your own signature touch.

None of this has to be mundane or boring. Make it fun - that's where the magic begins. [Read: Goan Vibes, Parsi Memoirs]

You could also give yourself some fun-filled goals to steer your confidence with social skills in the right way. You could start a small Book Club with friends and read together some amazing Indian authors. I'd highly recommend books such as 'The Last Queen' if you enjoy historical fiction.

You can also be part of a potluck group at your workplace or enjoy a day out with some one you've recently met and liked being with.

In the wise words of renowned author Prakash Iyer:

"Being a winner in life is simple. Think like a high jumper.

Keep your eyes on the hurdle, on the challenge ahead.

Believe in your ability to jump over that, to overcome.

But after every success, raise the bar.

DARE TO THINK DIFFERENTLY!"

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