tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post6206910018921675276..comments2024-03-09T17:34:42.794+09:00Comments on Petals!: Being Single in India: Why so much fuss and prejudice?Swapna Raghu Sanandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10167474469892964199noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-90040544793480636592015-07-30T19:20:30.407+09:002015-07-30T19:20:30.407+09:00Great article..
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Anonymous - i am unsur...Jitendra - Great article. <br /><br />Anonymous - i am unsure what you meant by 'over expecting'. Is it wrong to expect more, either from your potential spouse or from life in general. Also, what correlation 'adjusting' has with happiness?Jitendranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-90258796150281405232014-03-20T20:06:51.614+09:002014-03-20T20:06:51.614+09:00NGDCs .. The fun of about to / wanting to get marr...NGDCs .. The fun of about to / wanting to get married and then prolonging that is probably a Ganesha Tech thread from a male point of view .. seems somewhat okay to me .. Recently in a talk show with former minister Sri. Ganesh Kumar, Sangeetha Mohan (who seemed somewhat happy with her status..) was trying to bring in some "priority" Concept Thoughts into it .. With a Nigudha Samkhyam Astrological Promotion Angle I may say 7th house (or even 12th house) strengths are something to assess in a generic way while deciding on marriage and there could be other complicated methods too by changing 7th house to some other favourable "Bhava" perhaps as a "Parihara" in getting married .. Even in India too probably there seems a slow arousal of some guiding thoughts that Marriages are more to be considered a more intimate friendship act .. but then when the strength of Marriage as an Institution gets weakened Children might the ones who might suffer more in the longer runs .. http://www.athmavidya.blogspot.in/ jkhttp://www.athmavidya.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-25967192948776699452014-03-18T23:10:54.369+09:002014-03-18T23:10:54.369+09:00@Anonymous: I understand your view but I see marri...@Anonymous: I understand your view but I see marriage as a person's personal decision, like clothes that one wears, the religion one chooses to profess/practice or not practice.<br /><br />Regarding your question, what is the reason for staying single?<br /><br />Different people could have different reasons based on their personal goals and experiences in life. It would be a sweeping statement to say that one's decision to stay single is due to over expectation. <br /><br />Some of the world's greatest and most respected spiritual masters stayed single - can we say it is due to over expectation? Not at all. So, it differs on a case to case basis. <br /><br />I also believe that to live in this world, it is self-realization that leads the way to both internal and external harmony with the world within and around us. Swapna Raghu Sanandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10167474469892964199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-59403908372217076372014-03-18T19:21:55.583+09:002014-03-18T19:21:55.583+09:00Staying single or not is a very personal decision....Staying single or not is a very personal decision. But what is the reason for staying single? It is because of over expectation. If you want to live in this world with happiness, then you have to adjust with others. Otherwise there is no option than staying single.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-10444180640697554112014-03-16T18:36:07.989+09:002014-03-16T18:36:07.989+09:00Good to read your thoughts, Vinaya.
Sharing my e...Good to read your thoughts, Vinaya. <br /><br />Sharing my experience here: A majority of the girls I have interacted with - be it from professional life or from within the family - do not believe they have an independent choice. The attitude is conditioned by years and years of parental counselling like this 'Marriage is your destiny, your husband's home is your home' mentality. Not bad provided, they are given a choice to question it in the first place.<br /><br />Marriage counselling is essential in Indian society. Churches and educational institutions that are conducted by churches do a very thorough job of presenting it but within the structure of their beliefs. An expanded version with a more liberal interpretation should be implemented in secondary/high school level.<br /><br />I truly feel that the first subject we need to teach in Indian schools after ninth or tenth class is the topic of marriage because that's where a lot of social restructuring has to take off and yes, it is currently taking place in a very small way though there's far far to go before we can begin to call ourselves 'culturally progressive'. And just to clear the air, I am not a feminist. I am just a writer:)Swapna Raghu Sanandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10167474469892964199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-3715984815574931222014-03-16T16:53:34.284+09:002014-03-16T16:53:34.284+09:00I'm sure if given a choice, every girl would l...I'm sure if given a choice, every girl would love to live an independent life with control over her choices, her finances, her dreams and goals in life.vinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07002501707107783193noreply@blogger.com