tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post573432436102895933..comments2024-03-29T19:35:15.014+09:00Comments on Petals!: Celebrations, Pretensions and Disengagement in RelationshipsSwapna Raghu Sanandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10167474469892964199noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-41109521409880234442014-08-22T23:45:52.602+09:002014-08-22T23:45:52.602+09:00Hi Ajit, I understand what you are saying. Your fe...Hi Ajit, I understand what you are saying. Your feeling of joy relating to Vishu probably has more to do with how you felt as a child. It has a lot to do with memories, feelings than with the actual monetary value...ami wrong?<br /><br />As adults, we tend to lose that child like, positive energy. We become 'smarter' in weighing and calculating the value of money more than the value of the gesture, the effort or even the sincerity underlying the gift.<br /><br />Key point is: Relationships are nowadays more influenced by money than by feelings, memories or the beauty and sanctity of relationships. Swapna Raghu Sanandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10167474469892964199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-78828508036772782522014-08-22T23:42:20.600+09:002014-08-22T23:42:20.600+09:00@JK: It's one choice more than nature...@JK: It's one choice more than nature...Swapna Raghu Sanandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10167474469892964199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-78127559613136029262014-08-22T23:41:58.815+09:002014-08-22T23:41:58.815+09:00Dear Asha,
As always, we seem to be on the same w...Dear Asha,<br /><br />As always, we seem to be on the same wavelength on this topic too...every time I read your comment, I feel reassured too and nudged out of a growing sense of sadness 'Is it just me who feels this way?' - you get the drift...:)<br /><br />Swapna Raghu Sanandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10167474469892964199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-78179455214105002242014-08-16T21:57:29.956+09:002014-08-16T21:57:29.956+09:00There is nothing wrong in what your servant feel ....There is nothing wrong in what your servant feel . I remember Vishu was my favourite festival as a child since i get money from elders.Also now also if some one gives you gift clothes for a festival u feeel happy rit.So its human nature. But i dont understand the idiots of the so call financially independent women who expect 50K gifts from their partners !!!.Sooner or later its bound to breakAjithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09446072977186494308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-50198869159824815492014-08-13T05:54:47.092+09:002014-08-13T05:54:47.092+09:00NGDCs .. Maybe people having good enough strength ...NGDCs .. Maybe people having good enough strength as per Nigudha Samkhyam Astrology may benefit with the 3rd house of Fashion, Show - Offs, Pretensions, Masks etc etc .. Maybe the ones with weak 3rd house may not benefit from that much .. Even Generally with some trial and error mechanisms with different times also may show some benefitting from such aspects and some others may not .. maybe they are all aspects of Dialectical Dianetics with this world ..<br /><br /><br />jk<br /><br />https://www.facebook.com/iMightLikeItDoNotMeanIagreeWithThat/photos/a.187995108000925.46348.187957254671377/211375952329507/?type=1<br /><br /><br />jkhttps://www.facebook.com/iMightLikeItDoNotMeanIagreeWithThat/photos/a.187995108000925.46348.187957254671377/211375952329507/?type=1noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5754927206488334474.post-18782719621462570152014-08-12T17:15:39.682+09:002014-08-12T17:15:39.682+09:00Needless to say that you have echoed my thoughts d...Needless to say that you have echoed my thoughts dear Swapna. Even i find people very fake and pretentious on social media that includes blog world too. <br /><br />Yes, even my servant said the same today, when i asked her did you tie rakhi? she said yes and my bro gave me money. True the world has become materialistic from minimalistic. Emotions are only through emoticons. <br /><br />It is at these times, i find succour in nostalgia. thank you swapna, this post gives hope that there are still genuine people like you in this worldAshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01853943313848326731noreply@blogger.com